Men make the stupidest choices; and when it's all over with they wind up miserable, bitter and in a state of angry delusion. Because YOU'VE cast pearls before swine and ended up with the pig YOU deserved. I find myself laughing at my friends old ex's who ask me about them. This is the girl YOU decided to LEAVE for some HEAUX BAG. Funny thing is; YOU didn't appreciate her love or loyalty. YOU didn't appreciate how many guys she turned down, because of her loyalty. And YOU never dreamed she'd leave, but she did and now you're kicking yourself, because YOU were so busy trying to "BE THE MAN or THAT NIGGA!"
I will never understand men or why it takes them losing something good to realize that girl was the best thing to ever happen to YOU; and deep down you loved really LOVED HER! Maybe you suffered from HYSTERICAL BLINDNESS and couldn't see what was right in front of you. Or was it your selfishness that prevented you from keeping the best thing in life. Her LOVE FOR YOU was UNCONDITIONAL! Now the whole world has to suffer for your callous mistake. The fact you were over confident that she'd never leave you, was crazy; even pipes burst when too much pressure runs through them. So how long is a girl supposed to wait, be patient, understanding...while dealing with your deceit and crap? For as long as you want her to? Sorry, real life doesn't work out that way and one day she will walk out on you. When it happens you won't care, because you'll be too busy chasing tail (dirty tail) to realize the mistake you're making.
Usually men allow sex to become a distraction, leaving the one girl who was perfect for you. It's no one's fault but your own, this is what YOU wanted and now you're sorry for wasting your time and money on a HEAUX! After she gets through using and playing you the way you've played everyone else; ALL WOMEN BECOME HEAUX'S, BITCHES, SLUTS and EVERYTHING but GOOD to YOU! The experience has made you bitter and you try to HURT every woman because of the woman who HURT you. But why? YOU had a decent girl and you MISCONSTRUED SEX FOR LOVE and GOT PLAYED...NOW YOU"RE MAD? WOW!!!
Recently, I ran into one of my good friend's ex-boyfriends. After our Hello's, her name was the first thing out of his mouth. Of course, he wants to know how and what she's doing and who would be crazy enough to put up with her. I put the CEASE and DESIST on this CLOWN, in good old Zanee' Fashion! "Man, don't go there with all that!" Because I wasn't about to stand there and listen to him "DOG HER OUT" because he screwed up. I had to do it and I politely, brashly put it on dude; raking him over the coals for breaking her heart. I know all too well about this story, so NO, I'm not going to listen to you talk about my friend. Once he realized I wasn't with the nonsense, he began a confessional; and I'll just leave it at him telling me "I MISS HER AND I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED HER WHEN I HAD THE CHANCE!" Oh really? Now you MISS HER? I smiled and said "That's all you need to say to me, because I can see straight through the CHARADE!" But now you're married to the chick you "THOUGHT" YOU WANTED and YOU"RE NOT HAPPY!
The moral of this story is be true to yourself and feelings...leave the past in the past. Forgive, forget and let go. Make peace with people and mend broken fences. The anger, bitterness and resentment is not worth your health. If you're not happy, move on and LET IT GO! We all make mistakes and I think it's funny how women will LEAVE a man QUICKER than a man will LEAVE a wife or woman, he KNOWS he doesn't want to be with. My question is, WHY? If you're unhappy in your relationship or marriage...realize one thing life is too short to live in misery! Do what makes you HAPPY and LOVE WHO MAKES YOU HAPPY! If you can, go back and right your wrongs...if you want to reclaim YOUR TREASURE, GET RID OF YOUR PRIDE!
I will never understand men or why it takes them losing something good to realize that girl was the best thing to ever happen to YOU; and deep down you loved really LOVED HER! Maybe you suffered from HYSTERICAL BLINDNESS and couldn't see what was right in front of you. Or was it your selfishness that prevented you from keeping the best thing in life. Her LOVE FOR YOU was UNCONDITIONAL! Now the whole world has to suffer for your callous mistake. The fact you were over confident that she'd never leave you, was crazy; even pipes burst when too much pressure runs through them. So how long is a girl supposed to wait, be patient, understanding...while dealing with your deceit and crap? For as long as you want her to? Sorry, real life doesn't work out that way and one day she will walk out on you. When it happens you won't care, because you'll be too busy chasing tail (dirty tail) to realize the mistake you're making.
Usually men allow sex to become a distraction, leaving the one girl who was perfect for you. It's no one's fault but your own, this is what YOU wanted and now you're sorry for wasting your time and money on a HEAUX! After she gets through using and playing you the way you've played everyone else; ALL WOMEN BECOME HEAUX'S, BITCHES, SLUTS and EVERYTHING but GOOD to YOU! The experience has made you bitter and you try to HURT every woman because of the woman who HURT you. But why? YOU had a decent girl and you MISCONSTRUED SEX FOR LOVE and GOT PLAYED...NOW YOU"RE MAD? WOW!!!
Recently, I ran into one of my good friend's ex-boyfriends. After our Hello's, her name was the first thing out of his mouth. Of course, he wants to know how and what she's doing and who would be crazy enough to put up with her. I put the CEASE and DESIST on this CLOWN, in good old Zanee' Fashion! "Man, don't go there with all that!" Because I wasn't about to stand there and listen to him "DOG HER OUT" because he screwed up. I had to do it and I politely, brashly put it on dude; raking him over the coals for breaking her heart. I know all too well about this story, so NO, I'm not going to listen to you talk about my friend. Once he realized I wasn't with the nonsense, he began a confessional; and I'll just leave it at him telling me "I MISS HER AND I SHOULD HAVE MARRIED HER WHEN I HAD THE CHANCE!" Oh really? Now you MISS HER? I smiled and said "That's all you need to say to me, because I can see straight through the CHARADE!" But now you're married to the chick you "THOUGHT" YOU WANTED and YOU"RE NOT HAPPY!
The moral of this story is be true to yourself and feelings...leave the past in the past. Forgive, forget and let go. Make peace with people and mend broken fences. The anger, bitterness and resentment is not worth your health. If you're not happy, move on and LET IT GO! We all make mistakes and I think it's funny how women will LEAVE a man QUICKER than a man will LEAVE a wife or woman, he KNOWS he doesn't want to be with. My question is, WHY? If you're unhappy in your relationship or marriage...realize one thing life is too short to live in misery! Do what makes you HAPPY and LOVE WHO MAKES YOU HAPPY! If you can, go back and right your wrongs...if you want to reclaim YOUR TREASURE, GET RID OF YOUR PRIDE!
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