This song came out right after a life altering, mind blowing experience I had. There's no need to elaborate, but twenty something years later when I hear this song I wonder how many people realize there was one person they were made for. You know it, your friends know it and EVERYBODY who knows or knew your HISTORY; shake their heads and PROCLAIM "YOU KNOW YALL WAS SUPPOSED TO BE TOGETHER RIGHT?" Most adults dismiss teenage love as a "PHASE", but when they still ask you about him or her; you know YOU WERE MADE TO BE TOGETHER! Life is funny and I hate when fate intercepts TRUE LOVE between two people. It's amazing how the people who NEVER wanted to see you together are quick to ask you about the person and inform you about what's going on in that person's life. Another weird thing is; you know you were made for each other when people actually think you are siblings! As time goes on, you disagree about everything, you live to fight and make up, when you wait each other out to see who'll call first...all that mess! You know she was meant for you when you have your pick of the litter in women; yet NOBODY CAN TALK TO HER, LET ALONE SLEEP WITH HER! You know she was supposed to be your wife when you decide SHE REMINDS YOU OF YOUR MOTHER and YOU WANT HER TO BE THE MOTHER OF YOUR KIDS! You know WERE MADE TO BE TOGETHER, when you avoid talking to her because SHE CAN "READ" YOU LIKE NO OTHER WOMAN CAN! Call you out on your "ISH" and you just let her rant, rave, call her CRAZY and LAUGH BECAUSE YOU KNOW SHE'S RIGHT!
I've seen many couples like this, who weathered the storm and are STILL TOGETHER. They have grown old, but stay young in each other's eyes. They have grown children, they have grandchildren and have experienced life's ups and downs. Celebrated, fuss and fought, loved and lost; but they are able to grow together to ENJOY THE GOOD, BAD AND THE UGLY!
A woman knows that ONE MAN( NEXT TO GOD) SHE BELONGS TO and I don't care what other DUDE comes along; YOU'RE BASICALLY WASTING YOUR TIME BECAUSE HER HEART BELONGS TO SOMEONE ELSE! In time she WILL TELL YOUR ASS TOO...MAKE HER MAD OR GET IT MISCONSTRUED THAT YOUR ARE "THE ONE" AND SHE WILL BUST YOUR BUBBLE AS QUICK AS YOU BLEW IT! The saddest thing about people who were made to be together, is they rarely are. And as hard as it is; they miss each other deep down, but God has other plans. If your love is REAL, it's worth preserving...I learned this a long time ago. After a marriage, engagement and four children; I realized I NEVER WAS IN LOVE WITH ANY OF MY CHILDREN'S FATHERS! Why? Because it was too easy for me to stop speaking to them without a thought. I don't hold grudges against them, I'm not angry or mad with them...I just don't want to be bothered, PERIOD! We have nothing to talk about, not even the children. Would I speak to them if I saw them in passing? Sure, being cordial is FREE, but to revisit anything other than a casual conversation is absurd. So in short ( as Big Pun would say) "GO THAT WAY!" No disrespect, but I could careless about their lives and have no desire to share what's going on in mines.
Any Who...there are some people who were MADE TO BE TOGETHER, and their LOVE IS ETERNAL! I've seen people go on to marry other people and they are NEVER SATISFIED WITH WHO THEIR WITH and it resonates throughout the course of their marriage or relationship. And trust me, being together for years doesn't mean YOU WERE MADE TO BE TOGETHER OR SUPPOSED TO BE TOGETHER. Most women are really confused about this concept. Sometimes, men only marry you when they have a life changing moment or they've been forced to marry you because of them children or because a parent thinks it's a good look! You didn't marry for love or you wouldn't have to FEUD like the HATFIELDS and Mc COYS...I'm sorry! Are you going to disagree and fight...YES YOU ARE, but when you have to "HOLLA MARRIAGE IS HARD AND TAKES A LOT OF HARD WORK, IT'S NOT THAT HARD TRUST ME!" When LOVE IS TRUE and NOT FORCED...THERE IS A NATURAL FLOW! ALL THAT DRAMA WON'T EXIST IN ABUNDANCE "IF YOU WERE MADE TO BE TOGETHER!"
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