The other day my friend Divine in boxed me to see how I was doing. It was funny because my girlfriend had the only crush on him back in the day and just asked me about the old Bay Towers Crew! I told her I hadn't seen any of them in awhile, but most of us are friends on Face Book. All of a sudden, I get a message from Divine who lets me know he'll be in town and wants to hang out. My girlfriend and I will be going to meet him for dinner. I miss my old friends and don't mind chilling with them, the GENUINE ones. I'm learning to be weary of dudes with two FAKE BOOK pages and the ones who LURK on your page because it's open and yet you can't see theirs or they don't have the respect to friend request you! Yet all the other skank ass tramps are on their page and this is when you realize, they have a lot to hide... You gotta love em, FAKE AS A THREE DOLLAR BILL!
The one thing people don't realize is there's only but so much hiding you can do behind a profile. Believe me, the real you permeates in ways you wouldn't imagine.
Don't you just love the fake ass fools who are married or in relationships yet they look to hook up with females on the sly? I love those types, cause in a week they'll be boo'd up in some Fake Book Flick with their Wife or "Boo!" Which is why I only deal with certain people and I am not on a cyber hunt for a date.
These last couple years have taught me so much about people especially men; how shallow and full of shit they are. Why they can befriend certain people on a social network and yet have an issue with you. If there's one thing I do have is tact, respect and common sense. I never comment on any of my male friends pics or make inappropriate comments; especially if they have a wife or a girl friend. It's not worth the stress and I don't want the headache.
There was a time I'd question the reasoning behind people's actions, but I had to look within myself and realize when people act a certain way, they're not your friend anyway...they never were!
So I want to take the time to Thank my home boys, ex-crushes, boyfriends and good friends for being real with me and not slithering around a snake, full of dishonesty and lies. For respecting me enough to know I would never disrespect them or their significant other. I encourage my male friends in the most positive ways and have no time for games... I KNOW MY PLACE AND STAY IN IT!
I see, you as Genuine and we will remain that way.......it's so, Easy
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