Ok I try hard not to talk about my life, but sitting here watching Love Jones is crazy. Now you know I'm just being CYNICAL, THIS BLOG IS ABOUT LOVE AND LIFE! What mistakes I made, what I've learned, who I've learned and WHY I WILL NEVER GO BACKWARDS IN MY LIFE. I am so looking forward to the future and all the possibilities it has in store. As for now, back to Love Jones. Sitting here watching the movie has me thinking of my latest chance encounter. Let's just say it's been a long time since I've felt "A JONES." The chance encounter, me brushing "HIM" off HARSHLY and him remaining UNPHASED by my attitude...PERSISTENCE. But he's smart, realizes a good thing when he sees one and doesn't back down. Giving me SPACE, knows my current SITUATION and RESPECTS it! We talk and it's HONEST! He's HANDSOME...yet calls me SEXCII and I BLUSH through the phone, because he can't see me. Still letting him know compliments isn't a segue to my ass! The fact he tells me to BE MYSELF IS WHAT I LOVE...I ask him if he's SCARED of me, trying to "RATTLE" him, see what he's made of. Translation: Are you man enough for me? When in reality I see a CONFIDENT, SMUG, CALM, COOL and COLLECTED man; who I call "cute." While his laugh INTIMIDATES ME! Isn't it supposed to be the other way around? At least I thought so, I guess we shall soon see.
Timing is the world to me and our timing is off by decades. But we enjoy each other's conversation. Although I've yet to go on that "date," I am NEVER EAGER to go out on a date with some random man. I guess prolonging things maybe a good thing and it's never hurt any body. It ain't hurting us! I'm just saying women are way too eager to "jump" at an invitation to have sex. There's no room for conversation or getting to know each other. We are so quick to go running on a date (if some of us are even asked) only to wind up in some "COMPROMISING SITUATION!" I really don't get women today. There is no "CHASE" with them. You meet a man and within the month your sucking his juices and the juices of any woman who's sat on his D$%*K in the last six months; and you're really looking forward to this man taking you serious? Good luck with that! A man who's done nothing to earn the "SACREDNESS or SANCTITY" of YOUR BODY, yet you are so willing to relinquish the rights to your "TEMPLE?" It's not even your "TEMPLE" it's God's "TEMPLE!"
Promiscuity is a program, I can't get with ON ANY LEVEL...and I lose many potential and wanna be suitors in the process and but that's a good thing. Because by the time you get to know a man, you began to realize you could've kept your damn drawers or thong on. Whatever you wear! Like clock work, a good woman will calculate whether or not you're even worth talking to, before she sleeps with you. There's nothing like REGRET to us as women, well some of us. I'll just say this, we need to be more "SELECTIVE" about who we give our time and bodies to. Not only is it important, it's imperative to a woman and her health, that she proceed with "CAUTION" in choosing a sexual mate. I love the inboxes I get, the propositions and all the men dressed in wolves clothing, trying to see if they have a chance...YOU DON"T! You gotta love them though and I give you an "E" for "EFFORT"...you deserve it. Don't hurt a brother for trying, all I do is COACH you "PLAYERS" cause your game ain't that tight, take your ass back to the drawing board...Cause even though "PIMPIN AINT EASY, I AIN'T EASY!
It's a dumb "BOY" who can't recognize the signs of a woman who hasn't "cleaned the pipe" of every dude she's met. It's also dumb for a man to be impressed by the trashy antics of an easy woman. If she slept with you within the month, how many other men has she done this with? If you're not required to respect her at the end of the day, you might to dig in her past and find out how many men really respect "your latest conquest?"
The "MORAL" of my story is, be a little "RESISTANT" ladies. Don't be so quick to go out because he asked you once, make him ask you a few times before you "GIVE IN." Cause if we are "REAL" and this blog is for "ADULTS," THINGS CAN HAPPEN ON A FIRST DATE...SO DRAG THE GAME OF "TAG" OUT AS LONG AS THE LORD WILL ALLOW! In other words, make a man "RESPECT" you and "TAKE HIS TIME WITH YOU!" Believe me, being "OLD FASHIONED" never goes out of STYLE, but BEING A T.H.O.T is! I feel a sense of ACCOMPLISHMENT and PRIDE because I am being asked to dinner on a constant basis. Not only that, most men tell me they are "AFRAID" to approach me for fear of the mighty "ROAR!" If your intentions are right and you approach me or any woman like a man, you'd approach any woman the "RIGHT" way...and there'd be "NOTHING TO FEAR!"
My new "INTEREST" has passed a lot of "TESTS" so far! H.E. has not DISRESPECTED ME OR MY WISHES IN ANY WAY... ASSURING ME HE IS A "PATIENT MAN AND GET WHAT HE WANTS ONCE HE PUTS HIS MIND TO IT!" My response...I hope you are ready for the ride, cause I am "NOT EASY!" I'm going to do everything I can to discourage your advances and eventually you'll wind up either staying for the long haul or we'll be the best of friends. Either which way, "RESPECT IS ONLY GIVEN TO WHOM IT'S DUE!" Keep that in mind the next time an eligible "BACHELOR" approaches you. Be a mystery, be interesting you can be fun in many other ways, but be a lady! I'm trying to be something other than the "BLUES...I'M TRYING TO BE HIS JONES!"
